|Jane Eyre, by Charlotte Bronte|
Narrated by Juliet Stevenson
Warning: here be spoilers
When Jane fights back against her abusive aunt and cousins, she is sent away to a boarding school for charity cases. There, she is starved, punished severely, and witnesses deaths of students due to school negligence. After living this life for 18 years, she is thrilled to find a place as a governess for the ward of the mysterious and wealthy Mr. Rochester. They find love, but only at a great cost.
I first read Jane Eyre as a teenager and wasn't thrilled with the book. I thought Rochester was a jerk. And Jane. Well. She started out feisty enough, but as an adult she allowed Mr. Rochester to be a total jerk to her. When she discovers his deep, dark secret, she throws herself about dramatically upon the steppe until she is rescued. Then she meets this nice cousin (St. John Rivers) who proposes to her and offers to whisk her off to India and she says no!
I just listened the brilliant Juliet Stevenson narration of Jane Eyre with a more mature ear. I noticed several things - Jane's fiestiness in the first chapters of the book were not necessarily looked on as a good character trait by Charlotte Bronte. In current times we have this view that everyone is equal and we should defend ourselves against abuse instead of just taking it with a bowed head. But look at it from the perspective of a Christian in the 19th Century who may have been taught to accept what she can not change.
This acceptance is demonstrated to perfection in young Helen Burns - Jane's friend at school. Helen patiently explains her philosophy to the angry Jane, and Jane heartily disagrees. They seem to be opposite ends of a spectrum. Jane wants to change everything because it's unacceptable, and Helen wants to accept everything because it's unchangeable. When Helen's character dies with acceptance, Jane seems to adopt her philosophy - thus taming the fire within.
It is with this acceptance that she deals quite calmly (most of the time) with the rudeness and games of Mr. Rochester. Jane recognizes that this is how he is, she's unable to change it, but she is still able to see the kindred spirit within. In other words, it is her acceptance that gives her a trait that I can admire - forgiveness. And it is this acceptance which brings her love in the long run.
But Jane does not accept to the point of having a weak character. When Rochester gives her an unacceptable choice - living with him as an unmarried couple - she chooses to leave. This is not weakness. This is strength. Yes, she flopped about dramatically on the steppe for a couple of chapters, and it was her own fault for losing her money, but this was a choice she made when she left Mr. Rochester. She couldn't stay, so she took an option that was very brave: the total unknown. Many a weaker character would have sacrificed her own values and self-worth by staying with Mr. Rochester because she had nowhere else to go. But Jane found a way to change when the "unchangeable" finally became "unacceptable."
Jane is strong to accept what she can not change and she is strong to change what she can not accept.